Heal Your Marriage, Heal YourSELF

Just a few short years ago, I was not very happy with my marriage.

I felt trapped and sad and like my husband didn't love me. I felt like he was chronically irritated with me and I didn't know why and I didn't know how to stop it. Both of us resented each other. On the surface, things weren't so bad, but I would think to myself: this isn't how marriage is supposed to be. I would think: what happened to feeling passionately in love? What happened to actually feeling joy in my marriage?

I told the Lord my complaints in prayer. At the time, I really blamed my husband for all of it. Like I said, I was resentful. I was blaming. And so it came as a shock when God's response to me was to look within. He said, "You think he's so terrible? Look at yourself!" I was shocked and stunned and sad. I honestly thought I had been doing everything right! Everything I possibly could do! But it turned out I was wrong, and God took me on this incredible journey of self-healing that eventually ended up healing my marriage as well as myself.

It also opened up my spiritual gifts. One night I promised that I would live the way He taught me 100%. The next morning, I suddenly had gifts of spiritual sight and healing that I never even realized were available to me. I know my gifts are tied to the same principles that healed my soul and healed my marriage.

Just 4 weeks after I made that promise and my gifts opened up, my husband came to me in tears, apologizing for the way he had treated me and how he had run our family. We had a fresh start that was completely different. It was hard and so beautiful. I know without a doubt that my change of heart made room for him to change his heart too. I didn't change him; I changed myself and the change I made created a space that invited him to change too. And he was so relieved to make that change.

As I stepped more fully into my femininity, he was able to step more fully into his masculinity.

Today, we complement each other so well and we are so happy. He is constantly cornering me for hugs while I'm cooking dinner. He spontaneously tells me I am beautiful. Sometimes I catch him staring at me and he tells me he was just wondering how it was possible he was lucky enough to end up with me.

These are things that were unimaginable just a few years ago. The changes our relationship has gone through are unimaginable to my younger self.

The most miraculous thing about it all is that this is REPLICABLE. I have shared these secrets with multiple women whose spouses have changed in incredible ways--at times, with their husbands even giving up serious addictions in order to save their marriages--and voluntarily doing so. Happily doing so. Can you even imagine?

Here is a screenshot a friend sent me just a few weeks ago, along with her commentary. Her husband is a recovering addict:

I had reached out to this woman when I saw her post about her frustration with her addict spouse--she was at her rope's end and I knew I had an answer for her. I sent her a book--the textbook we will be using for this course. And lo and behold, her husband starts sending her lovey-dovey texts!! Completely unbidden!

She wrote:

His attitude has totally changed from the minute I started reading the book. He just aced two interviews with his dream company for a position that will increase our income by $1000/month. He started working out with a personal trainer and his stinking thoughts [edit: addict thoughts] seem to have disappeared. Wow! All I can say is wow. He so kind and his prayers for me are heart felt. He is opening up about his recovery. It's incredible. Thank you.

A little later she wrote this to me:

My H started going on about how he felt awake and new and couldn't put his finger on it. How I'm not doing anything different really than what I've always done and yet it feels so different and he knows I've been trying all these years and he appreciates it, but it never felt so fulfilling before.

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These are RESULTS!!!! Results that are GLORIOUS!!!! 

I LOVE THEM!!!!

FYI on the timeframe there: this change took place in basically a week. What?! Obviously, everyone's mileage will vary because every relationship is different, but.... even so. What?!?! In early December she was lamenting the state of her marriage and mere weeks later, her husband is working recovery, sending her loving texts, and getting his life together. It's astonishing.

A few days ago I was awoken bright and early with instructions to teach a class these next few weeks on the marriage relationship and cultivating joy through marriage. I am so excited to share this with you all. Oh guys, I am so thrilled.

This class will be for women only. Being married is not necessary--it will teach you the way to have a beautiful romantic relationship whether or not you are married. It will be online and recorded so you can watch later if you can't make it live. You will be assigned a glorious textbook that will change your life (you can order it today if you want, here. Get started on the journey. It is a life-changer. Of course, our class will go deeper than the book). You will discover beautiful things about yourself you didn't even know were there. It will be so amazing you just don't even know!!!

That's how I feel about my life now that I am implementing these secrets--it's so amazing I just haven't even known what to do with myself!

Only now I do know: I am opening up this class for registration today. There is a 100% money back guarantee if you actually watch every lecture, complete all assignments, and still don't see any results.

A word of caution: this class is probably not for you. This will be a class for women who are ready for change that requires work. You will have homework! But the hardest work will be internal! That is one reason why this class is not just lecture, but also group energy work. We will be clearing our emotional obstacles to joy in marriage as well. It will be tough but glorious.

Oh guys, I'm so excited.

What would it mean to you to have results like my friend's above? Can you even imagine it? 

As a reminder, this class will be part lecture, and part group energy work to clear blocks that are impeding our self-healing. 

Please feel free to email me any questions! awinegarduzett @ gmail . com, remove the spaces. So excited to work with you!!

UPDATE: Here are some comments from women who took the course:

taking Allies course was really about freeing myself to be who I truly am, it was a very spiritual experience. I had been conditioned all my life to be tough, and toughen-up. It wasn't easy to let go of all those thick layers of resentment, anger, and a hard shell, it was a little scary at first because those have been my protection all my life.  The energy healing was a dire necessity for me to let them go. But, I knew if I really wanted to be closer to God, and have better relationships with my husband and children, I needed to let them go. And deep down, I really wanted to. I was so tired of wearing the pants in my family AND doing all the nurturing as well. I now feel lighter, more free, and so much more acceptance of my role as a mother and nurturer in my home, as well as a supportive partner to my husband. What's even more amazing is how much power I have found, in embracing my feminity, our entire family dynamics have changed. I feel like I am finally happy in my life and roles, and with who I really am, as a powerful daughter of God. I hope all women everywhere will take the time to seek out what it really means to be a woman, from God's perspective. This course is absolutely inspired. 
M.K., Reno, NV

All I can say is incredible, so greatly exceeded my expectations!!! I was meeting with legal aid to proceed with divorce papers when I learned about the possibility of taking this course. I had already committed to do anything to save my marriage that was morally right and healthy for all involved, so I saw this as a last ditch effort and didn't really put much stock in it saving my marriage. I was more expecting to heal myself and be able to move forward in a new relationship at some point in all honesty. It was more a way to deal with my grief. 

The challenges put forth in the class were not what I would consider popular or "feel good" approaches, but because they claimed to be based in immutable, universal, governing law regarding relationships I decided to try them in faith and with real intent. I felt I had nothing to lose. I saw changes in my marriage immediately. My husband came to me in tenderness and sincere questioning about why he was feeling enlivened by me specifically. We have been separated over a year and he lives eight hours away so for him to notice such a drastic change so quickly really made me take notice. The improvements came steadily and felt permanent. Trust in him was not an option for me in the beginning, so I put my trust in the process. He responded with changes in his attitudes, feelings  and behaviours that empowered my trust in him increasingly. Which of course increased his confidence and by and by created a positive spiralling upward effect. An intense contrast to the downward spiral I had been fighting to free myself from. The culmination of the course was Valentine's Day. By far, this was the most enchanting, endearing, rewarding and fulfilling Valentine's Day of my life. I am so thankful!!! Allie's ability to teach principle combined with her powerful gifts in healing so that such valuable knowledge can be effectively incorporated and applied in her students lives is a rare and precious commodity. Money, time, all the resources of life were tight when this opportunity came to me. I felt continually at peace throughout the course that what I was putting in was being returned manifold. I couldn't have afforded not to take this class. - E.P., Canada

Allie’s class, Heal Yourself, Heal Your Marriage, was packed with ah-ha moments and self-discovery.  The spirit verified the truth of her well researched information over and over again. She presented it in such an approachable and supportive way that I left every class feeling hopeful and encouraged that my perspective and marriage would improve.  And that they did.  I enjoyed reporting my own little miracles to the class and finding true power in being my feminine self.    After hearing so many conflicting messages about women, our roles, and goals, reading so many cliché memes about feminism, and empowerment, Allie’s class was so timely and refreshing for me.  She really delved deep into the heart of my heart, addressed my fears, and found resolutions to many internal conflicts.   I have felt significant shifts in my marriage.  Intimacy feels more connected and pleasurable.  I feel less burdened with my duties as a mother.  I don’t carry resentment towards my husband anymore.  My husband has been so supportive of my wants, both financially and time wise since I’ve started living Fascinating Women’s principles.  I feel all giddy in love again!   -L.R, Idaho